Common situation
When a U.S. military veteran dies
Military veterans and their families are entitled to a meaningful set of benefits at death. These include burial in a national cemetery at no cost, military funeral honors, financial burial allowance, and ongoing survivor benefits for spouses and dependent children. The benefits depend on the type of discharge and the circumstances of death.
What is different about your situation
Any veteran with a discharge other than dishonorable is generally eligible for burial in a VA national cemetery, including a free grave site, opening and closing, headstone, and perpetual care.
The VA pays a burial allowance of up to $2,000 for service connected deaths and up to about $948 for non service connected deaths.
Military funeral honors (folding and presenting of the flag, playing of Taps) are provided at no cost. Request through the funeral director.
Surviving spouses may be entitled to Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC) of about $1,650 per month if the death was service connected, plus additional amounts for children.
The most urgent things to do first
- Locate the DD-214 (discharge papers). This document is required for nearly every veterans benefit. If you cannot find it, request a copy from the National Personnel Records Center.
- Tell the funeral director the deceased was a veteran. They handle most of the VA paperwork at no charge.
- Apply for the VA burial allowance using VA Form 21P-530.
- If burying in a national cemetery, contact the VA at 1-800-535-1117 or apply through the VA burials portal.
- Request military funeral honors through the funeral director or by calling 1-877-MIL-HONOR.
- Apply for survivor benefits (DIC, survivors pension) through VA Form 21P-534EZ. Bring marriage certificate, death certificate, and the veteran's DD-214.
- Order the bronze grave marker or government headstone for free (VA Form 40-1330) if burying in a private cemetery.
State by state notes
Most states also operate state veterans cemeteries with similar benefits, which can be closer to home. Some states offer additional veteran spouse benefits, including property tax relief, college tuition assistance for children, and license plate fee waivers.
Frequently asked questions
Is burial in a VA cemetery really free?
Yes. The grave site, opening and closing, headstone or marker, perpetual care, and a burial flag are all provided at no cost. The family is responsible for getting the body to the cemetery.
What if the veteran was cremated?
Cremated remains are also eligible for burial or inurnment in a national cemetery. Many cemeteries have columbarium walls for urns.
How long does the VA burial allowance take to arrive?
Typically 3 to 6 months after filing VA Form 21P-530. Submit the application as soon as possible after the funeral.
Can a spouse be buried with the veteran in a national cemetery?
Yes. Spouses and dependent children may be buried in a national cemetery with the veteran at no cost.
Does the family need to pay for military funeral honors?
No. Military funeral honors are provided at no cost by the Department of Defense. Request through the funeral director.